Create Soul Space: Domestic Abuse Support and Healing

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How a Trauma Bond Can Change Your Attachment Style
It’s sad, and painful, yet it’s also true: a trauma bond is not authentic love.
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What Happens When the Gift of Self is Rejected
Marriage is supposed to be about mutual self-giving, the dance between self and other, the balancing of strengths and opposites, weaknesses and…
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(6) Don't Plant Your Seeds: Chapter Four, Part One
Pride of Place: Why Isolation is So Common in Abusive Relationships
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Sarcasm as a Weapon: An Insidious Tactic of Verbal Abuse
Sarcasm as abuse.
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Under My Thumb: Coercive Control and the Sensitive Victim
Domestic abusers who portray themselves as sensitive, sweet, and a victim of others are among the most deceptive and destructive.
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Unwittingly Describing the Abuse Cycle
The Predictable Pattern of Intimate Partner Violence (IPV)
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The Making of a Narcissist
Controlling and manipulative behaviors don't have to be intergenerational.
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What's Going On With Me? Reactive Abuse and Remorse
What it is, and why professionals hesitate to call it "abuse"
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We Know About Fight, Flight and Freeze—But What About Fawn?
I’ve written about the nervous system’s response to trauma in previous articles, and I think most of us are familiar with the concept of fight, flight…
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How to Change Your Relationship
The Christ-Centered Way
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Psychological Physical Violence Can Be a Sign of More to Come
Physical violence always creates physical wounds, right? Maybe not ...
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Follow Your Intuition
One of the nasty side-effects of domestic abuse is the muffling of your own inner knowingness, yet that still, small Voice within is guiding you toward…
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