Create Soul Space: Domestic Abuse Support and Healing

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How a Trauma Bond Can Change Your Attachment Style
It’s sad, and painful, yet it’s also true: a trauma bond is not authentic love.
Jul 13, 2023 • 
Jenny duBay
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Create Soul Space: Domestic Abuse Support and Healing
Create Soul Space: Domestic Abuse Support and Healing
How a Trauma Bond Can Change Your Attachment Style
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What Happens When the Gift of Self is Rejected
Marriage is supposed to be about mutual self-giving, the dance between self and other, the balancing of strengths and opposites, weaknesses and…
May 3, 2023 • 
Jenny duBay
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Create Soul Space: Domestic Abuse Support and Healing
What Happens When the Gift of Self is Rejected
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(6) Don't Plant Your Seeds: Chapter Four, Part One
Pride of Place: Why Isolation is So Common in Abusive Relationships
Mar 3, 2024 • 
Jenny duBay
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Create Soul Space: Domestic Abuse Support and Healing
(6) Don't Plant Your Seeds: Chapter Four, Part One
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Sarcasm as a Weapon: An Insidious Tactic of Verbal Abuse
Sarcasm as abuse.
Sep 8, 2022 • 
Jenny duBay
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Create Soul Space: Domestic Abuse Support and Healing
Sarcasm as a Weapon: An Insidious Tactic of Verbal Abuse
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Under My Thumb: Coercive Control and the Sensitive Victim
Domestic abusers who portray themselves as sensitive, sweet, and a victim of others are among the most deceptive and destructive.
Nov 8, 2021 • 
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Create Soul Space: Domestic Abuse Support and Healing
Under My Thumb: Coercive Control and the Sensitive Victim
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Unwittingly Describing the Abuse Cycle
The Predictable Pattern of Intimate Partner Violence (IPV)
Jun 8, 2021 • 
Jenny duBay
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Create Soul Space: Domestic Abuse Support and Healing
Unwittingly Describing the Abuse Cycle
What's Going On With Me? Reactive Abuse and Remorse
What it is, and why professionals hesitate to call it "abuse"
Sep 29, 2023 • 
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Create Soul Space: Domestic Abuse Support and Healing
What's Going On With Me? Reactive Abuse and Remorse
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The “Alarm Clock” Method of Sexual Coercion
Sexual abuse isn't limited to the overt, physical aggression of domestic rape; it can be more subtle, insidious, and difficult to detect.
Jul 14, 2021 • 
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Create Soul Space: Domestic Abuse Support and Healing
The “Alarm Clock” Method of Sexual Coercion
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The Making of a Narcissist
Controlling and manipulative behaviors don't have to be intergenerational.
Apr 11, 2024 • 
Jenny duBay
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Create Soul Space: Domestic Abuse Support and Healing
The Making of a Narcissist
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We Know About Fight, Flight and Freeze—But What About Fawn?
I’ve written about the nervous system’s response to trauma in previous articles, and I think most of us are familiar with the concept of fight, flight…
Apr 21, 2024 • 
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Create Soul Space: Domestic Abuse Support and Healing
We Know About Fight, Flight and Freeze—But What About Fawn?
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Psychological Physical Violence Can Be a Sign of More to Come
Physical violence always creates physical wounds, right? Maybe not ...
Sep 22, 2021 • 
Jenny duBay
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Create Soul Space: Domestic Abuse Support and Healing
Psychological Physical Violence Can Be a Sign of More to Come
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How to Change Your Relationship
The Christ-Centered Way
Mar 14, 2023 • 
Jenny duBay
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How to Change Your Relationship
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