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Rewriting History
Why some people control the narrative by rewriting history, and what you can do to protect yourself.
Apr 21
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Jenny duBay
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Transforming Disenfranchised Grief Through Shared Experience
Coined in the 1980’s by Dr.
Apr 14
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Jenny duBay
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Transforming Disenfranchised Grief Through Shared Experience
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Healing the Wound of Shame
At various points in our lives, we’ll all experience shame—that deep feeling of unworthiness, the core wound of being somehow defective, bad, or…
Apr 2
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Jenny duBay
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March 2025
Projection and the Shadow Side
One of the most frustrating aspects of being close to someone with an abusive mindset is their inclination to project their faults and indiscretions…
Mar 26
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Jenny duBay
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The Obstacle of Resentment
At the heart of abusive mentalities is the obstacle of resentment.
Mar 17
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Jenny duBay
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February 2025
Deserving the Gift of Tenderness
One cannot be an authentic gift of self to another if use rather than love is a dynamic within the structure of the relationship.
Feb 26
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Jenny duBay
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Deserving the Gift of Tenderness
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Healing While Staying: When You Can’t (or Don’t Want to) Leave
Is it possible to heal your deep inner gashes and newly-opened wounds while still enmeshed in a toxic marriage?
Feb 21
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Jenny duBay
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Healing While Staying: When You Can’t (or Don’t Want to) Leave
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The Contagious Nature of Shame
"All that we do ... is done in response to love and shame competing for our attention." (Dr. Curt Thompson)
Feb 12
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Jenny duBay
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The Contagious Nature of Shame
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The Mask Created by Shame
"Only authentic love can restore broken and distorted love." (St. Miriam James Heidland)
Feb 5
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Jenny duBay
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January 2025
The Problem of Tenderness
More wisdom from St. Pope John Paul II on right--vs. wrong--relationships
Jan 27
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Jenny duBay
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Catholic Teaching on Domestic Abuse Within Marriage, Part Two
“Married love is too often profaned by excessive self-love.” (Gaudium et spes)
Jan 17
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Catholic Teaching on Domestic Abuse Within Marriage, Part Two
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Catholic Teaching on Domestic Abuse Within Marriage, Part One
Everything you need to know about the Church's teaching on indissoluble marriage, domestic abuse, and annulment.
Jan 10
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Jenny duBay
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Catholic Teaching on Domestic Abuse Within Marriage, Part One
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