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Why Motivations Matter, Pt. 3: The Malignant Gaslighter

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Why Motivations Matter, Pt. 2: The Somewhat-Aware Gaslighter
In last week’s article I wrote about the “clueless gaslighter”—those people who aren’t aware they’re gaslighting their loved ones, co-workers or…
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Why Motivations Matter, Part 1: The Clueless Gaslighter
Do people engage in gaslighting behaviors because they’re inherently cruel, sadistic or narcissistic?
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Turning Off the Gas
Gaslighting has become a popular topic, a buzz word thrown around sometimes too haphazardly, yet what do we truly know about it?
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Why Laughter Truly is the Best Medicine
"Laughter is not just laughter; it's the most fundamental sign of safety and connection" (Daniel Coyle, The Culture Code).
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When There’s Hope of Change
We must not be prisoners of hope—yet in some cases, we need not abandon all hope.
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Pain versus Suffering: How to Decrease Suffering by Acknowledging Pain
When we are in the swirling storm of emotional suffering, we can either adopt ways of thinking and acting that increase our distress or foster ways of…
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Stonewalling vs. Safeguarding: Learn the Differences
When we hear the term “stonewalling,” we most often think of it as a negative thing.
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Breaking the Bonds of Silence
"While I, spurred on by yet another thirst, kept silent ..." (Dante, Purgatorio XVIII)
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Finding Your Joy, Part 2: Charisms
In last week’s article, “Finding Your Joy, Part 1: Releasing Yourself from Functional Freeze” I described how it feels to be stuck in the “freeze…
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