The Obstacle of Resentment
At the heart of abusive mentalities is the obstacle of resentment.
Resentment and abusive mentalities seem to go hand-in-hand, particularly when the aggression is of a covert, passive-aggressive nature. Beneath the surface of the manipulative attitudes are feelings of envy, defensiveness, and fear of being treated unfairly. Individuals with a self-focused view of life see relationships as a c…